It was a relief when LtDan finally got it through my head
that the kids were actually supposed to help me with the housekeeping.
Once I embraced the concept, I was curious about what chores
other families had their kids doing, and I did some research to get ideas.
I was, quite honestly, shocked - but admittedly excited :o) - at how much kids in other families
were doing around the house.
It works for us to change our approach to chores periodically.
This time, a little unwillingly, I took a suggestion from the kids
and instead of creating a big chart and assigning out each task,
we took a broader approach and assigned rooms.
This time, a little unwillingly, I took a suggestion from the kids
and instead of creating a big chart and assigning out each task,
we took a broader approach and assigned rooms.
After our lunch break, each person is responsible for an entire common area, floor to ceiling.
That includes doing whatever is necessary to keep the area picked up and orderly:
straightening, putting things away, fluffing pillows, emptying trash, sweeping, etc.
During the week, we keep it to the basics of making sure things look straightened up.
We also alternate bathroom cleaning duty every other day.
We also alternate bathroom cleaning duty every other day.
On the weekend we go a little deeper,
and that's when the basics for each common area plus
dusting, vacuuming, cleaning the ceiling fan, dusting the corners, etc. happens.
Here's our current chore chart:
The most critical element of doing chores is me checking them -
there is a definite direct correlation between quality and me performing quality control.
Here's our current chore chart:
The most critical element of doing chores is me checking them -
there is a definite direct correlation between quality and me performing quality control.
Honestly, I didn't think this whole room approach would work - it just seemed a little too loose,
but the kids really like it and that's probably why it works so well.
If I walk through a room at any time of the day and it needs to be straightened,
the room's "owner" is the person who's asked to take care of it.
And while I'm being honest, I will tell you this approach seems to work
much better in the common areas than in their rooms,
but that's because I'm more likely to neglect checking the condition of their rooms
in favor of making sure the common areas are orderly.
Our goal was to keep the house clean for an entire month
without needing to do a big effort house cleaning,
and we've exceeded that goal ... YAY!
without needing to do a big effort house cleaning,
and we've exceeded that goal ... YAY!
By "clean" I mean straightened and reasonably clean (not necessarily clean-freak clean :o).
I'm working with four teenagers -
well, three teens and a 20 year old (yowza, how did that happen?),
and I've been training them since they were small.
By now, things should be working pretty well, yes?
Take heart, moms of the very young, take heart!
All the training you're pouring into your little ones now will pay off mightily.
Your kids will clean your house the way you want it cleaned,
and your house will stay tidy without a whole lot of singular effort on your part.
That day is coming, and you deserve it!
We also rotate daily responsibility for cleaning up the kitchen and lunch preparation.
Most days, the same person responsible for cleaning the kitchen in the morning
was responsible for the night before, so if things are left undone overnight,
the same person is on duty the next day to finish the job.
This is working really well for us right now, too.
If you're interested in our chore system from last year, click }here{
Initially, I really believed it was easier to just do the housekeeping myself, and I needed convincing. If that's where you find yourself, here are a few benefits of having your kids do chores:
Vince Lombardi sums it up perfectly:
Individual commitment to a group effort - that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work.
- Vince Lombardi
And we thought they were just taking out the trash :o)
- Vince Lombardi
And we thought they were just taking out the trash :o)
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