He's in the Army Now

Surely every parent tries to predict what their children will be based on their interests as they grow up.  At two years old, I thought our eldest son would be a hydraulic engineer because he loved to play in the water.  When he was five, I suspected he would be a game designer because of the complex games he made, meticulously drawing pieces and cutting them out.  Then came age eight, and I was certain he'd be a video game designer since video games piqued his interest.  Around twelve, I was pretty sure he was going to be an artist, most likely famous for writing a web comic.  The teenage years rolled in and finally I conceded I wasn't going to be able to predict anything at all.

 When Ben began to talk about being a nurse, it was clearly more than just a passing interest as he spoke of the markers God was putting in his life.  I was surprised, but so proud.  I was so proud of his gentle and respectful, yet commanding demeanor as we helped my Dad in his final years.  It all crystallized in my mind when I knocked on Ben's bedroom door well after 2am one night, because his granddaddy needed his help.  Ben's response went from an irritated "WHAT???!!!" at my knock, to an enormously kind "Hey, Granddaddy, what can I do for you?" within two minutes.  That's what the best do ... they put the self aside and they address the call.



When Ben talked about joining the army, even though I'd always thought the military would be a good fit for him, it was a surprise because he'd not expressed an interest in it before, as far as I could remember.  But I thought yes, of course.  Military service is well and honorably represented on both sides of our family, with Grandfathers, Great Uncles, Uncles, and a cousin, each having achieved something akin to legendary status.  I know my son took many cues from these extraordinary men.  That's what the best do ... they take their inspiration from the best and follow the lead.

Ben grappled with the decision to go into the military pretty intensely over many days, and when he made the decision to go Army we couldn't have been more proud.  He'd be able to begin his service as a medic and work toward getting his RN while in the military.   Of course there's the scary side of  military service, but I determined from the start not think about that side of it unless I'm praying. I have yet to meet anyone who went into the service that didn't come out a better person, and I know this will be the case for Ben as well.



Since we'd already booked our February family cruise when he signed up in December, Ben was able to get a deferred enlistment.  He worked, saved his money, enjoyed spending time with his friends, time stretched out and it seemed like his ship out day would never come.  The family cruise was a sweet time of just being together without the normal at-home distractions.  When we came home, we hosted a dinner in Ben's honor with close family and friends, and everyone had an opportunity to speak encouragement and blessing upon him.  Most moving to me was what his younger brother had to say, acknowledging Ben's significant personal growth over the past year.  Since the kids were toddlers, I've prayed that our family would be a place of personal growth, and that we would recognize and allow it in each other as it happened.  What an awesome answer to prayer; to hear it put so succinctly from one sibling to another was the  g r e a t e s t  pleasure.  Then Ben's cousin brought in a little levity by thanking him for taking the pressure off their generation of the family to go into military service.  Ha!



The days prior to shipping out shifted into hyper drive and it seemed impossible that the time was  upon us.   Although I'd had the privilege of accompanying my Dad as a veteran to various military activities, it's a very different experience to see it all from the beginning, when everyone seems so young.  We witnessed the swearing in of about twenty people, and that was only one of several groups that day.  Then it was time to see our son board the bus and wave goodbye.  I'm not going to lie and say there isn't a big hole in my heart.  That afternoon I was teary at the slightest kindness, but I'm excited for the beginning of a great life experience opening up for my son, and that's the most important thing.



We watched the bus pull away, and headed home.  I did the regular grocery run and bought about $50 of junk food, and it was clear we would comfort ourselves with cookies, at least for one evening.  I wanted to tell everyone I saw, "My son just left for Basic Training" but I refrained :o)  Day Two was distracted and disjointed and I found everything to do except for what I planned to do.  Day Three I leaned into it, treated myself kindly, tossed the to-do list and organized the pantry.  My highly sensitive kid-radar is still a little off, missing a blip on the radar.  But I'm pretty sure I can trust the US Army to keep tabs on my boy.



I keep thinking back over his childhood and wonder where was the play with the plastic green army men, or the obsession with GI Joe that could've tipped me off that the Army was the way this one was going to go.  But it turns out that what I should have been predicting in those early childhood years was that my son would turn out to be high value, strong, steady, compassionate, resilient, deferential, capable, adventurous and personable.  On that I would have been 100% correct.

Live from the Lido Deck : A Family Cruise Review

When it comes to vacation, our loyalties are firmly fixed on the Alabama Gulf Coast - I've written about that here and here.  But ... for the longest time, LtDan has wanted to go on a cruise.  Honestly, cruising has never appealed to me, but when LtDan finally put his foot down and proclaimed this is the year we do a cruise, and he found an unbelievable deal on the Carnival Triumph for the whole family, well ... how could I say no?  I was excited about being on the sea, and excited to go to Mexico, and for sure happy to have nearly a whole week with the kids just having fun, but I still wasn't sure if I would really like it or not.

 A lot of the uncertainty stemmed from all the what ifs.  You know the ones.  What if our house burns down or is burgled while we're gone?  What if our car is stolen while we're on the boat?    What if we have an accident or someone gets injured?  What if our clothes aren't fancy enough?  What if we get seasick?  What if there are obnoxious drunk people everywhere? What if there's an excess of scantily clad wanton women parading in front of my boys?  (I know, I know - they're no longer "boys" - more on that later.)   What if someone steals our wallets and ID's?  What if the peddlers in the marketplace won't leave us alone?  What if we're abducted in Mexico?

Those what ifs.

I'm happy to say that none of the scary what ifs happened.  We did have not one, but TWO exciting incidents involving wallets (and ID's) left behind; one in our own car before we even made it to the boat, and one left in a taxi in Cozumel!  LtDan saved the day in the first incident and quickly took a taxi back to our hotel to retrieve the first forgotten wallet.  Ben was the hero in Cozumel when he employed his Olympic speed power sprint and caught up to the taxi just as it was leaving the parking lot.  He had to run into the street with it and bang on the side of the van to get the driver to stop.  Oh.  My. Goodness.  I'll be thanking the Lord for his kindness to us on that one forever and ever.

So again, not one of the bad things happened ... Hallelujah and Amen.


Here are our take-aways and a review of a Family Cruise to Mexico:

Take the Loop Around Downtown Houston

If you're driving to catch a ship out of Galveston and your route takes you through Houston, make sure you take the loop around downtown ... the traffic is probably not worse than any other big city traffic, but wow, if you're on vacation you deserve a break from it.  We went through downtown Houston on the way to Galveston on Friday evening but opted to take the loop (which is a tollroad) around it when we drove home.  So.  Much.  Better.  The nice thing about that was if you have a toll tag for the DFW area, it works in Houston, too - no stopping to dump coins at tollbooths.

Overnight in Galveston / Park the Car Free

Our cruise left on Saturday, and most Texas people I talked to just drive down to Galveston the day of the cruise, but that made me nervous.  I can't imagine how much more stressful the downtown Houston traffic would have been if we'd have been trying to make a boarding time (sorry, Houston people, I'm sure your city is lovely).  Anyway, we spent the night at the Holiday Inn Resort in Galveston because they offer free shuttle service to the Cruise Terminal and free parking while you're gone.  It was affordable and nice enough, and knowing where we'd leave the car was one less unknown to worry about.

YES:  Get a Valet to Help With All Your Luggage

We're a family of six, and we had five bags and six (heavy) carryons.  The Luggage Valets both when we checked in and when we came back were life savers.  Not only was it great to have help with all the bags, it was peace of mind to know they knew what to do even if we didn't.  The internet says standard tip rate is $1 to $2 a bag (or more if they're excessively heavy) and it was worth every penny of our generous tip to have someone knowledgeable help us negotiate bag check-in on the way out and customs on the way back in.

Birth Certificate & Drivers License Was Fine for ID

Please do not take my word for it and do your own research, but in February of 2016, original Birth Certificates and Drivers Licenses were fine as ID for cruise travel to Mexico.  I was nervous about this, and honestly I will probably just get everyone a passport if we take another cruise, but for this trip, I was really happy that for cruise travel to Mexico, no one hassled us at all for just using birth certificates and drivers licenses.  Again, if you're traveling, please do your own research on this - I  believe criteria will be changing soon, even for cruise travel to Mexico.

Clothes

Planning fashionable cruise wardrobes for all six of us was a little daunting, but I just approached it as though we were going to the beach for a week and packed accordingly.  Like everything else these days, we saw pretty much the whole spectrum of clothing, from very very casual to dressy.  The dressy was only on the evening designated for elegant dining, and even then, there was plenty of casual attire mixed in.  I'm sure it varies from cruise to cruise, but we fit right in with our casual and dressed-up-but-not-too-much wardrobes.  My greatest regret:  not taking a hoodie to wear whilst sitting in a deck chair, sipping on something lovely and reading to my heart's content!  Although we had sunny days, the wind made it chilly.  So, if you're thinking of cruising in the off season, don't forget your favorite cool weather outerwear!

To Balcony, Or Not to Balcony?

LtDan and I booked a room on the back of the boat with a balcony - truly dead center of the boat - it was lovely!  The balcony was large enough for three chairs and a small table.  I was glad we opted for the balcony for our first cruise - I couldn't fathom not being able to step outside or at least open a window.  But really we didn't sit on the balcony much, because it was much more fun to sit on the deck with other people. You can find a place that's relatively quiet, or stake a claim to deck chairs on the Lido Deck around the pool (yes, LoveBoat fans ... the LIDO DECK :).  I'm curious to see what a stateroom on the side of the ship would be like, because those rooms on our ship had balconies, too.  We didn't indulge our kids with balconies - they had interior rooms with no windows.  At first, it seems claustrophobic, until you realize how little time you're really spending in there.  I'm not ruling out getting a balcony if we cruised again, but it's not as big a deal as I thought it would be.

What About Sea Sickness?

We had very pleasant and calm weather, except for our last night at sea when we came through some (very mild) stormy weather.  On the calm days, sometimes you feel just the slightest movement of the ocean - nothing at all to make you unsteady, and you really have to be looking for it to notice.  The night there was stormy weather (and again - it was VERY mild), we were just conscious of an occasional roll.  Even that was nothing to make you unsteady on your feet - it was just enough to make you notice, and to me, it was actually pleasant :o)  The day after we got home, every once in a while when I was sitting very still, I would feel that sway-ish feeling, which I adore.  It's like a free souvenir so you don't forget that you were on the ocean.

Activities

Oh the on board activities!  Things kicked off with line dancing on the Lido Deck and went from there.  There was bingo, an Oscar Watching Party, plenty of duty free shopping (jewelry and paintings were the big feature on this cruise), a full service spa, a gym, Dive-In Movies, Piano Bar performances, a Comedy Club, Karaoke, a casino, full cast live production shows, a danceclub, and I'm sure I've forgotten a few hundred other things.  There were lots of activities for youngsters as well, and they celebrated Dr. Suess all week long - it was pretty cute.  Every evening, our porter left a schedule of activities in our room for the next day, so we could plan accordingly.

My favorite activities were the Dive-In Movies.  We sat in deck chairs, huddled up in blankets (provided by the cruise line) and watched Jurassic World projected on a big screen above the swimming pool.  I think there were current-run movies every night, and popcorn was also provided!

Excursions

Our ports of call were Progresso and Cozumel.  Before you leave, the cruise line sends many helpful emails to let you know about all the things you can do when in port.  Actually, for someone like me who's afraid of missing out on any of the fun, it made me feel a little panic-y to make the right choices and fast.  But really, at least in the off-season and on this cruise, there wasn't as much urgency as I let myself believe.  We could have waited until we were on the cruise and booked from there, even though the emails made it seem like we needed to do it in advance (please do note, however:  we were cruising at the end of February - I'm sure in peak season it's a different game).  We stayed on board the ship in Progresso and enjoyed a quiet day while most folks went ashore.  In Cozumel, we got our own taxi to the market and had a grand day of shopping, bargaining, serenades, and eating the hands down best fajitas EVER.  There may or may not have been Tequila involved.

Communications

Our greatest challenge was without a doubt communication.  Our AT&T phone network wasn't reliable enough to be sure everyone was getting our "This is Where I Am" or "WHERE ARE YOU????" texts in a timely manner.  And unfortunately, one of our phones just flat out died the day we boarded the ship.  These were huge challenges for a family of extremely independent types who are nonetheless very dependent on technology.

Next time, we'll:

• officiate our family emergency procedures if someone can't be located
• figure out some low-tech way of tracking everyone.  Some people brought their own walkie-talkies, and they were actually available for purchase from the gift shop.  Some people used dry erase boards or sticky notes on their cabin doors.
• know you can ask Guest Services whether someone has gotten off or on the ship (because you punch in your door keycard when you come and go).  In one case, the info we got was accurate, in the other case, it wasn't.  But it's at least a place to start if you're looking for someone.

Disembarking

When you think of a cruise, you imagine sailing away from port, but what about coming home?  Never thought about that at all, myself.  How exactly do you get over 2000 people off a ship in an organized fashion?  Fortunately, the cruise line has that all figured out, and just like with boarding, you're given a set time to get off the ship.  If you're checking bags to be taken off the ship by the cruise line, you'll pack them up, tag them, and put them outside your cabin by 11pm the night before.  Then, when your time to disembark comes, you'll make your way down the gangplank and into the baggage claim area.  I imagined mass chaos, but it was remarkably organized and our bags were right there when we got off the ship - no waiting.  We got a porter (there's a line for this, and you're assigned an official porter - this is so worth it!) then we made our way to customs and immigration.  The birth certificates and Drivers Licenses came back out and it took a very few minutes to pass through.

Family Friendly Helpful Hints

• Consider not only the dates and destinations but also what the ship offers.  Our kids were expecting a giant swimming pool, but the pools on this particular ship were adequate but pretty small compared to what they were expecting.
• Make it a priority to make friends and establish your group the first day if you can.  Go to the meet and greets.  The kids should sign up for the Kids Club.
• Do all the onboard activities you can.
• Make friends with the crew - they're there to help you have fun and are great sources of info.
• If there's nothing going on activity wise, don't stay in your room - go up on deck and hang out!
• Don't forget to take pictures!
• If you're going shopping, make your budget and then plan to spend it in about $10 increments.  It's a good idea to have small bills with you for the marketplace.
• If you're going to Mexico, don't forget that haggling over the price is expected  
• Leave your laptop at home - you're not going to touch it.  All you need is a good book :o)

Something for Everyone

There were six of us, and what made the cruise such a blast was that we all called out something different as our favorite thing.  We loved:

• playing basketball on the deck and working out at the gym
• sitting on the deck doing nothing (guess who that was :o)
• dancing the night away at the nightclub 
• filling up on unlimited food food food
• getting to know the amazing entertainment and wait staffs
• enjoying the sense of community

When we debriefed with the family about the whole experience, I think everyone agreed that the sense of community was everyone's #1.  Nathan put it best:  Everyone you meet is having this shared experience, so you can strike up a conversation anywhere, anytime - compare notes on the food, the excursions, the best deck chairs, whatever - you have an easy conversation opener with every single person you meet, and everyone's happy to talk about how much fun they're having.

This trip was a transitional experience for us ... we were traveling with two adult "kids" (21 and 22) and two teenagers (16 and 17).  Okay, really the transition wasn't so much for us as it was for me.  I still feel like it's my business to know what my kids are doing and when they're coming and going, but they are diplomatically and ever so gently helping me understand the apron strings are no longer necessary.  Is it okay for my adult "children" to go play basketball on the upper deck at midnight?  Well, Mom, yes.  Yes it is.  There comes a time when you have to just let your kids be who you've raised them to be.  It's hard, and it feels treacherous.  But you know what?  When you've been pouring your heart and soul into training them for twenty plus years ... they can be trusted to make you proud :o)

Our big question was how would going on a family cruise compare with a family beach vacation?  From a Mom perspective, I have to say going on a cruise was more of a real vacation.  When we stay at the beach, I still straighten up our condo, plan meals and do laundry daily.  On the cruise, someone else did the daily room refresh (and towel origami!), handled everything related to eating, and although no one did laundry, it's an option if you want to pay for the service.  If you have kids who are old enough to be somewhat independent, going on a cruise offers Mom more of a real break from the everyday.

At this point, it feels crazily disloyal to our beloved Gulf Coast annual vacation to even consider that going on a cruise could replace it.  But after such a great cruise experience, I can say we're a little more open minded to the idea.  One of the BEST things about going to the same place every year is that you get into the vacation groove really quickly, and the first part of your vacation isn't spent figuring things out.  So I think at this point, before I can say for sure whether or not I'd opt for a cruise instead of our annual Alabama beach vacation, I'm going to have to do more research.  You can find me on the Lido Deck, hanging out with Julie.

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Checkers and Miracles at the Table

One of my New Year's Resolutions for 2016 is to have a weekly dinner at the table.  As in sitting down.  Together.  At the table.  To be honest, this was one of my resolutions for last year, too, but I kept getting tripped up on trying to coordinate all the schedules first, and that just seemed increasingly impossible. Sitting down at the table used to be an every meal occurrence, but over the past few years we've become more informal while we juggled unpredictable schedules.   With 2016, I've declared Wednesdays family dinner night, and while we may not quite resemble the Crawleys in the Downton Abbey dining room, it's quite the happy occurrence.   Because attendance isn't required, it's up to me to make it an event my people would rather attend than not :o)

To make things a little more officious, I introduce myself as host, welcome everyone to the table, ask that we try to keep to one conversation, and ask everyone to participate in the topic of the week.  What's the topic of the week, you ask?  I printed 100 thought provoking questions from Alexandra Franzen, made them into curly strips of paper and put them into a glass vase.  Each meal, we'll choose one topic to discuss.  I expected a little push back on this, maybe a rolled eye or two ... but my kids were intrigued and engaged and happy to explore each other's thoughts.  With our second dinner, they were asking where the topics were, and the light in their eyes spoke volumes.  Click }here{ for Alexandra's list of questions - these are great for special occasions or ordinary days.

Every special meal comes with dessert, don't you think?  To start our year of Wednesday Family Dinners off in a remarkable way, I pulled out the checkerboard cake pan that came from my mom.

I know Mom planned on wowing her grandchildren with a checkerboard cake at some point but never quite got around to it, so it was nice to include her in our meal in this small way.  Making a checkerboard cake takes no special skill other than having the right cake pans, and I'm here to tell you that even though the bullseye cakes don't look like they'll end up in a checker pattern, if you stack them up right, they do.  I don't have the kind of brain that comprehends how that works, so it's a little bit like a miracle to me when you cut into the cake.

All you have to do is use two different cake colors, pour the different batters in alternating rings, and then stack the cakes so the layers alternate as well.  I used Duncan Hines Autumn Velvets and the cake came out beautiful and YUMMY.

 You can find your own checkerboard cake pan on Amazon for about $15 ... click }here{ for a set from Wilton that's similar to mine ... and you can have your own checkerboard cake miracle :o)

Happy New Year 2016!

Did you make it through the holidays?  Are you ready to bring in a brand new year?

In spite of my grappling not-going-to-say-Grinch-like start of December, by God's grace I wrested my heart into resting in grace, and finally relaxed into enjoying the holiday however it came together.  Mostly it was me reveling in the decorating and Christmas Carols, and me doing Elf on the Shelf (although my family seemed amused by my efforts); I watched A Christmas Carol three times, and one of those times the whole family was present.  I think that may have been the ONLY time we were all home together in the evening in the month of December ... it was our own family Christmas miracle!

My typical approach to getting the house ready for guests over the years has been to act like a lion-tamer with the mess, chasing it from room after room, until finally it's contained behind the door of the master bedroom.  That's worked to get the house clean and tidy, but then walking into our bedroom was like walking into a war zone.

This year I did things a little differently and started cleaning with the master suite, and the affect was AMAZING.  Even though no one else went in there, it was a quiet source of contentment to know that my room was tidy, and slipping in there to grab wrapping paper or a coat was a source of peace rather than shame and chaos.

Starting the house-clean in our bedroom also put a different spin on cleaning the rest of the house; it helped me remember that as much as we were preparing the house for our guests, we were also preparing and cleaning and tidying it for ourselves.  In the past, I always felt there just wasn't time to give this private gift to myself, but I won't neglect this one, ever again.

My sister invited us for a Christmas Eve dinner party, and served our family-traditional menu, oyster stew complete with oyster crackers.  She thoughtfully supplements the meal with amazing hot sandwiches for the non-stew lovers.  For dessert we all made our own mini-pies, using a plethora of candy filling choices and sweetened condensed milk.  While the pies were cooking, we each decorated our own Christmas ornaments.  It was so much fun to have a few moments of spontaneous creativity together at the table.  This is one of my very favorite meals of the whole year, both for the mouth watering oyster stew and the pleasure of sitting at my sister's beautifully set table.

We hosted Christmas day for both our families, and served Christmas dinner for eighteen.  Although this is customarily considered to be the most pressurized meal of the year, I've done this meal so many times in partnership with my sister and sister-in-law with support from my mother-in-law and sister-in-law from out of state, that believe it or not, for me it's probably the easiest meal of the year.  The cajun spiced turkey coming from Dickie's is the centerpiece, which makes it possible to focus on all the yummy side dishes and desserts.  We all have our assigned specialties and nothing on the buffet is neglected - every dish is completely wonderful!  We set up four tables in the family room and after the meal my favorite thing happened:  everyone lingered past seconds and over well-cleaned plates to visit.  The room hummed with great conversation and laughter and lots of love.

After dinner, our tradition is to have a White Elephant Gift Exchange.  One of the greatest things about a White Elephant Gift Exchange is that it's the perfect chance to offload unwanted gifts.  For years, I've been tripping over the snare drum Ben used in 8th grade drumline class.  I finally put it into the bag to take to Good Will, but pulled it out when I needed to round up extra White Elephant Gifts.  Imagine my surprise when my brother-in-law delightedly snatched it up (and the stand!  and carrying case!) - White Elephant gold, for both of us!  I scored a very nice Pierre Cardin pen and pencil set, but my favorite gift were the fake snowballs made of felt that my sister and brother-in-law picked up somewhere on the Arkansas/Texas border.  The snowball fight erupted as soon as they came out of the bag.

Our kids are of the age where they're a little hard to buy for - I always want to choose the just right gifts for each of them (ah, Christmas perfectionism, you joy killer) and I wasn't sure if I'd come close this year, but I think everyone was pretty happy.  My brother, eternal kid at heart, gave us a real deal popcorn machine, just like at the movies - it's SO CUTE and after years of microwave popcorn, I feel like I've discovered a new delicacy.  My sister-in-law gave me a sign to add to my winter decor and an adorable penguin Scentsy diffuser that makes me chuckle every time I look at him.  If you ever feel depressed, you must watch March of the Penguins to the end.  And then ever after, even on your worst of the worst days, you will tell yourself, "At least I'm not a penguin" :o)

In late November, I bought myself a Christmas gift, the sweetest book, The Art of Holly Hobbie.  I left it in the package until the day after Christmas, when I curled up on the couch and had the most lovely afternoon pouring over her whimsical artwork and words, while everyone else indulged in long winter's naps.  Oh, those rosy cheeks, those graceful hands, the intricate and whimsical detail, the delicate coloring ... nothing takes me back to my childhood like Holly Hobbie.

We rang in the New Year with good friends and January 1 has worked its magic on me ... the idea of planning and resolutions and goals completely geeks me out.  I make resolutions every year, and for several weeks, maybe a few months, with great luck nearly all year - some of them motivate me to work on refining me and my life.  Every year I know this will be the year I'll accomplish all of them :o)

Wherever you are and whatever your 2015 was, I hope that 2016 is a year full of sweet moments, true contentment, and deepest growth for you.  I thank you so much for stopping by my corner of the internet every now and again.  Let's fill 2016 with heaps of joy!

26!

I make it a habit NOT to do the math when it comes to calculating how long ago something happened,

because it shocks me 

every. single. time.  

But I can tell you that 1988 was 26 years ago ...

even though it seems just like yesterday.

26 years of happy yesterdays and many more years of great tomorrows 

with my best friend and favorite person in the world calls for celebrating, 

so LtDan and I took off for a mid-week getaway for our anniversary ... 

when we left the house, the kids threw rice at us :o)

I love those kids.

26 years ago I didn't know ... I had no idea ... how much you could like your own children.

But as crazy as we are about our kids, 

we left them at home and headed for the Dallas Rockwall Hilton, 

on the east shore of Lake Ray Hubbard.

This is a gorgeous property right on the lake ... 

If you ever stay here, ask for a room with a lakeview and a balcony, it's totally worth it.

The pool is huge and there are plenty of spots to soak up the sun.

We had a fabulous dinner at The Oar House, and loved sitting on the patio and the live music.

Everyone on the patio seemed to know each other - it was a really fun atmosphere -

 so great for an early summer evening.

My only experience with Rockwall heretofore was driving across the lake on the way to Arakansas, 

when the highway was under construction.  

I always just wanted to get past it as quick as we possibly could .... 

but that was - well, let's just say several years ago - and the construction has long been completed.  We discovered Rockwall has a resort kind of feel down around the lake ... we totally loved it.  

On this evening they were preparing for an outdoor concert by the lake ...

We watched the deserted pavilion area turn into a packed out party 

for a free concert presented by the Rockwall Concert by the Lake series.  

We caught the end of the concert from the patio of Dodie's Diner, 

because we had other plans for sunset ...

We took a cruise on Lake Ray Hubbard on The Seawolf.

The wind hit the sails and I was completely smitten.

Blissful.

We spent a little time doing some light-hearted shopping... 

I found a perfect souvenir to remind me of how blessed I am to be happily married to my best friend, 

a reminder to stop every once in a while and love life  ...

because I do.

We took home a painting from Kirkland's as our anniversary gift to each other ... 

Although this canvas is beautiful and would work fine over our fireplace, it'll go some place else.
We still love the painting we got in SantaFe back in 1992.
It's kind of funny to see that our tastes haven't changed all that much in ...
how many years?
Never mind.
I'll just go with 26.